05 12 / 2013
"A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination."
03 12 / 2013
"Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time."
21 11 / 2013
"We’re not the same person we were a year ago, a month ago, or a week ago. We’re constantly changing. Experiences don’t stop. That’s life."
17 11 / 2013
"Only be with someone who you think you can learn from. They should be smarter than you in certain ways so that you can continue to grow and be interested. Above all, you should undoubtedly be proud that you are with them."
16 11 / 2013
15 11 / 2013
What does it mean to love a person? What does it mean to be in love with a person?
The answer should be simple but it isn’t. We make it complicated and misunderstood. Sometimes even mistaken for something else.
I know what my definition of love is including what it means to love someone and be in love with them. Those definition are true for me and what I believe in. I’ve learned it may not be the same for everybody else, including those that I do love.
I can’t sit here and say “he doesn’t know what love is”, “that’s not love”, “if you loved me you wouldn’t…or you would…” etc. etc.
I can only sit here knowing I can love and will love a person unconditionally. I can choose to believe that their love for me - while I may not see it as “love” based on my own personal beliefs - is genuine because that’s the love they know. But I know I don’t have to accept it.
I won’t accept the chaos, selfishness, conditions, disrespect, hurt and pain as love. For me, that is not the composition of love.
You can love me in your way, from a distance.
I am going to love myself, in my own way without the misconceptions.